There is an old adage. Beware of wolves is sheep’s clothing.
This is a perfect warning against narcissists and abusers.
They appear to be kind and empathetic, at the beginning of the relationship. Then they come for blood.
The time they spend being nice to us, and acting like the perfect partner, takes a toll on them .
They soon tire of the game. Very soon, their mask will slip just for a minute. Do not disregard a dramatic change in character like that.
The other red flag to look for is the chameleon like behaviour. They will change personalities , and moods, on a dime, in order to fit into a different situation.
Beware of the wolves in sheep’s clothing. They are out there and they blend in with the crowd.
But if you pay attention, you will see the signs.
Be careful and protect your hearts and minds from narcissistic abuse.