Narcissists speak lies on a regular basis. They intermix lies with the truth and reframe truth in ways that confuse your perception.
One of the ways narcissists lie has to do with time and and amount. This one is nearly impossible to detect unless you are aware of how they do this.
Let’s say the narcissist wants to give you the perception that they have been thinking of you a lot and making a great effort to get together with you….
Narcissist Version -I have been trying for three weeks to get ahold of you. You are very difficult to get ahold of.
Perception they want you to have – They have been trying hard to get ahold of you and there must be something wrong with your phone or email. You should feel guilty or at fault for not getting their messages
Truth- They did not think of you…
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