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Social Rules and Stigma Keeps Victims in Abusive Relationships

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Society has conditioned us to stay in abusive relationships. The marriage vow is “for better for worse” and this mentality is often used by the churches and the families of victims, to send them back into the abusive relationship. 

I have clients that have told me about pastors and counselors that have told them that relationships are 50 – 50, and if there is something wrong it is equally both partners’ responsibility. These victims are given some kind of advice about how to be a better partner, and then sent right back to the dangerous person rather than getting the support they need to leave the abuser. 

Families and friends of victims are often the same way. They remind the person about the commitment they made, and that “everything is not always roses”. They have no idea what it is like to live in an abusive relationship, or how…

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How to Block Stalkers and Trolls from Gmail, Google Plus and YouTube

Every now and then you end up with someone that you don’t want emailing you, or able to access your google plus page. I have found some very good tutorials on YouTube that will explain to you how to block someone on gmail, and how to block someone on google plus. 
There is also one for how to block someone from commenting on your videos on your YouTube Channel. 
You have to block someone from each of your sites separately. Just because you have blocked someone on gmail, does not mean they are blocked from google plus. You need to do each of them one by one. 
 
Just because they are blocked from YouTube does not mean they are blocked from google plus. 
You get the idea…
 
You need to block gmail, and then go over to block them from google plus. 
Follow the instructions from the videos below. There is one for each of the three places. Each one has a slightly different process for blocking, so you need to watch each one that you need to block someone on. 
 
 
How to Block someone from sending you emails on gmail
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How to block someone on google plus
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How to block a user from your youtube channel from commenting and watching your videos
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A Reminder

Grace for my Heart

Not everyone who is cruel is a narcissist.  Not everyone with whom we disagree is a narcissist.  While it is helpful for us to have a category by which we can try to understand the crazy-makers of our lives, narcissism is a rather specific designation.  So it is important to be reminded occasionally of the actual definition of narcissism.

About once a year I like to repost a definition that I think is helpful.  New readers may see narcissism more clearly in the person(s) they deal with, or they may decide this has been a wrong track.  Either way, I think it is good for us to have something that helps to keep us on track.  

So, here you go…

What is a narcissist?

It’s Narcissist Friday!   

Unfortunately the meanings of words adapt to common usage.  A narcissist used to be someone who fit a certain psychological pattern determined…

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